The Power of Toys

20180601_095959Dawn Harris founded the Benton County, TN nonprofit Tree of Life Education Center (focusing on community outreach and resource alignment for pet owners), Revelation Gardens (a dog and cat sanctuary), and Reset Your Defaults (offering virtual retreats and stress reduction tools for pet owners).

Simple Strategies for Living Life Well: The Power of Toys

By Dawn Harris

Our dog and cat sanctuary is home to rescue-pets from 9- weeks old to 16-years old. We see all kinds of pet behaviors including grief and aggression. Often when a rescue comes to live at the sanctuary, they are afraid but slowly they begin to build trust and become content and playful. It is so rewarding to see a rescue-pet that hid on their first day, learn to play with toys and snuggle up to nap with a new rescue-brother or sister.

Sometimes though, pets show behaviors that can be challenging especially when life is very full and the behaviors are destructive or aggressive. There are really great books and videos available that provide ideas on how to work with difficult behaviors. One simple strategy I found that works really well with my aggressive, dominating puppy dog is the use of toys.

When my rescue-pet puppy began to gnaw on her rescue-brother, I found myself unsure how to stop her. Through trial and error I found toys to be a very effective distraction and method of training. Now I am a firm believer in the power of toys!

It was important to find very durable toys because toys can be harmful if they are torn apart and ingested. Once I found durable toys, I gave both dogs a bunch of toys exclaiming how special they were that they had so many toys. By making a big deal out of the toys and speaking in an upbeat way, they associated the toys with feeling good.

I began to condition the aggressive puppy through consistent use of the key word TOY and the upbeat positive tone in which I spoke it and I provided lavish praise when she played with a toy. This coupled with her experience of comfort the toy provided when she chewed on it instilled in her a very positive experience with toys.

Over time when she became aggressive and began to dominate and gnaw on her rescue-brother, I used the keyword TOY and she would find a toy choosing to chew on it rather than him.

Even though this has been very effective, it doesn’t work 100% of the time. Sometimes even when I do all the right things, the outcome is not what I want or expect. So, what do we do when our best efforts don’t work the way we intend?

Stay tuned for more Simple Strategies for Living Life Well when I talk about letting go of expectations.

Until then, remember to purr often, wag without hesitation, and nap in the sun at every opportunity!


If you would like to use toys as a way to curb difficult pet behaviors but cannot afford them, or if you would like me to answer a pet related question, please email me at dawnharris.22@gmail.com

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If you are a store manager and would like to donate durable toys or if you are a community member interested in providing a donation, please send an email to dawnharris.22@gmail.com.

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April 11, 2021

positive dog training
facilitated by angie tucker
with special guest kristi may, owner of legend acres
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April 4, 2021

~easter sunday~
how volunteers save lives
facilitated by angie tucker
with special guest tabrea faulkner
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March 28, 2021

~Respect your cat day~
books with pets as a main character
facilitated by dawn harris
with special guest angie tucker
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March 21, 2021

indoor vs outdoor needs
facilitated by angie tucker
with special guest dr. elizabeth paschall, camden animal clinic
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March 14, 2021

what to do if you find an animal in need
FACILITATED BY angie tucker
with SPECIAL GUEST Tracy chapman, director of the benton county animal shelter
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March 7, 2021

the importance of spay/neuter and Strategies for introducing a new pet into the home
facilitated by angie tucker
with special guest angela jones, lead writer for The Camden Chronicle and
Dawn Harris, founder and president of revelation gardens
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April 18, 2021

~national pet day~
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facilitated by angie tucker
with special guest Mary Gledura
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April 25, 2021

pet nutrition

May 2, 2021

Pet health

May 9, 2021

~Mother’s day~
emotional benefits of having pets

May 16, 2021

physical benefits of having pets

May 23, 2021

Pets and children

May 30, 2021

pets and older adults

June 6, 2021

Summer temperatures and pets

June 13, 2021

selecting the right breed

June 20, 2021

~father’s day~
Adopting vs buying

June 27, 2021

aging pets

July 4, 2021

~independence day~
fireworks and pets

July 11, 2021

~all american pet photo day~
Fun with Pets: pet enrichment

July 18, 2021


July 25, 2021

dangers to pets: foods to avoid

August 1, 2021

~dog-ust shelter birthdays~
Preventative treatments: Ticks, fleas, heartworms

August 8, 2021

~inernational cat day~

August 15, 2021

~national check the chip day~
should you microchip your pet?

August 22, 2021

~national take your cat to the vet day~
Communicating with animals

August 29, 2021

Pet owner stress reduction tips

September 5, 2021

~labor day weekend~
bridging gaps to pet ownership

September 12, 2021

housing issues

September 19, 2021

~national meow like a pirate day~
trash talk

September 26, 2021

~World’s largest pet walk~
Bringing in a new pet to a household that already has pets

October 3, 2021

~National walk your dog week~
Books about pets

October 10, 2021

October 17, 2021

~National fetch day~

October 24, 2021

October 31, 2021


November 7, 2021

Winter temperatures and pets

November 14, 2021


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Table scraps: dos and don’ts

November 28, 2021

December 5, 2021

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December 12, 2021

December 19, 2021

December 26, 2021